what i've learned along the way
. . . there is a place for me
Published on December 31, 2005 By lobsterhunter In Misc
I sat underneath a shade tree today and reflected on my life. The sun warmed my face as I journaled about the events of the last year and pondered the mysteries of all God is teaching me. There were all kinds of people milling about on the musuem lawn. Father's playing frisbee with their sons. Grandparents observing the odd art sculptures. Couples snuggling on benches. I actually witnessed a young man proposing to his soon to be bride. The proud parents stood at a distance stealing snapshots of the grand event, hoping to freeze a moment in time.

After the afternoon began to fade into evening, I decided to pack up my books and headphones, ready to face New Years Eve alone. My soul felt refreshed, and as I turned to walk towards my car, I came to a startling realization. The world needs single people like me. I happened to have been the only unattached person in the park today. And that was okay. I belong in the grand scheme of God's design, and for now I will be satisfied with just existing. May the new year bring the gifts of uncertainty.

Comments
on Dec 31, 2005
Yes. You defininitley do belong. *s* And you are one of a kind and precious to the One who created you. You fit perfectly into His puzzle of life. You are exactly where He designed for you to be... at this very moment. God bless you, LH.
on Dec 31, 2005
You're a lot braver than I am, Tenille. Pairing up and all that is the easy thing. Being alone is what's hard.

I hope you have a wonderful New Year's Eve, and don't forget to eat some black eyed peas tomorrow, you precious woman!
on Dec 31, 2005
You are exactly where He designed for you to be... at this very moment


Oh to truly be grateful for the seasons of our lives . . . Thank you for reminding me of God's favor.

Being alone is what's hard.


Yes. Sometimes it is. But, I've recently realized I like the freedom and spontaneity it provides. Thanks for taking the time to comment. Have a beautiful night.
on Dec 31, 2005
While being unattached can get a bit lonely at times, it really does have it's upsides. It's nice to be able to come and go as you please, spend your time (and money) as you see fit, and generally not have to feel responsible for someone else. I appreciate my freedom.

Yeah, you belong. Single folks like us have a place in the world. (and I don't mean the singles bars )
on Jan 03, 2006
I think it is interesting how you say that you are content with just existing. What happened to living?
on Jan 03, 2006
I think it is interesting how you say that you are content with just existing. What happened to living?


Perhaps my wording was not clear enough. In the context of existing as a single person, I am content most of the time. Living my life should be the goal whether I'm in a relationship or unattached.
on Jan 04, 2006
You will always belong. And you know where.

Love you T. May the God of Peace and the Peace of God be on you in 2006.

B~
on Jan 08, 2006

Um, I think this is some corny shit.

You used more cliche in this article than Dan uses analogys.

STEP IT UP!

 I love you anywayz, though.

And that's some crazy shit that you got to see some guy propose.  I'M JEALOUS!

Trinitie

on Jan 10, 2006
Trin, dont be so negative, this is really an inspirational article. And this is what she waas feeling, it was from the heart, and that makes it worth more than anything else. I really hope you find someone soon. I wish you the best of luck lobsterhunter.
Aloha
on Jan 13, 2006

gag me with a frigg'n spoon Laina!

Trinitie

on Jan 16, 2006
I thought it was sweet and honest. I didn't think the words "corny" or "cliche" once. If that means I'm gaggin Trin with a frigg'n spoon...so be it.
on Jan 17, 2006
Trin, when you come visit me I will gag you with a frigg'n spoon! lol!
Aloha