what i've learned along the way
. . . pausing long enough to count my blessings
Published on June 9, 2006 By lobsterhunter In Misc
I spend most of my life focusing on the small pieces of the puzzle and not nearly enough time looking at the end result. Tonight, God gave me a glimpse of the "big picture", and I figured reflection would help me remember that which is so easily forgotten.

My birthday is exactly six days away, and already, I have had two surprise parties and acquired a nice stack of giftcards to my favorite shopping spots. On two separate occasions, my teacher friends and my church friends joined me at my home for an evening of food, fun, and fellowship. The crowds were uniquely different, yet somehow the same. Each group has brightened my life in ways I will never fully understand, and I am grateful for these relationships.

Tonight, as I walked out my front door, I glanced up at the moon. I stood still for just a moment, and God spoke to my heart. He reminded me of how full my life is today. I am blessed.

Sometimes, when I think about the world I used to live in, I feel sorrow. Isolation and codependency robbed me of the joy that comes from risking love. God knew I needed to walk through those years of testing in order to see His hand at work today. That is His way. I will never understand it, and I'm not sure I appreciate it, but tonight I'm satisfied with the journey.

More struggles lie ahead, and I'm sure it will take a lifetime to fully accept His methods. In the end, I will grow up. I will change. Life will keep moving forward, and I will do my best to become the woman God intends for me to be.

One of my favorite scriptures in the Word of God comes from the Love chapter in 1st Corinthians. This verse helps me cope with all the confusion that comes with being stuck in this broken jar of clay. Tonight I squinted through the fog long enough to see a break in the clouds. Thank you God for the sliver of sunshine!

"We don't yet see things clearly. We're squinting in a fog, peering through a mist. But it won't be long before the weather clears and the sun shines bright! We'll see it all then, see it all as clearly as God sees us . . ."

Comments
on Jun 09, 2006
Tenille, I love you, but...

You think WAAAAY too much.

Happy birthday (early).
on Jun 09, 2006
You think WAAAAY too much.


Yes . . . yes I do! I suppose that is what makes my brain hurt.

Thanks for the birthday wishes!

on Jun 09, 2006
"That is His way. I will never understand it, and I'm not sure I appreciate it, but tonight I'm satisfied with the journey."

But isn't the point of the last few verses of I Corinthians 13 that, even though we are like children rather than adults or like someone looking through a dirty window rather than face to face, when the Lord comes to take us home we will understand? Now God reveals things to us in part, such as your satisfaction, but then we will understand and he won't have to explain why he does things the way he does.
on Jun 09, 2006
but then we will understand and he won't have to explain why he does things the way he does.


It's hard for me to conceptualize a time when I will truly understand God. I hope someday all of this will make sense, but I'm learning to accept the fact that for now, it's all just one BIG mystery. I suppose those brief moments of clarity keep me hangin' on until more is revealed. Thanks for your thoughts.
on Jun 09, 2006
My birthday is 7 days away (June 16th). This time next week I'll be taxing down the runway with an instructor - I get to fly a plane for my birthday!

Happy birthday to the both of us!
on Jun 09, 2006
It wasn't my intention to imply that we would ever completely understand God. It seems more likely that we will have an understanding of our own needs and we will not doubt that God loves us so much that he will provide for all of our needs and even our desires if they are not harmful or hinder the greater plan. Right now we are like children in that we have trouble separating our needs and our wants. We often want things that are harmful. We ask for some good things but lack faith. We think that God has something against us when we don't get what we want. The day will come when these things will not be a problem.
on Jun 09, 2006
I get to fly a plane for my birthday!Happy birthday to the both of us!


Yeah for you! Summer birthdays are so much fun. Enjoy the flight!

We think that God has something against us when we don't get what we want. The day will come when these things will not be a problem.


We are definitely kindred spirits! I often feel as though God is witholding good things from me until I figure it all out. Of course, I know how silly this line of thinking actually is, but it doesn't stop the thoughts from creeping in every now and again. I'm never going to arrive and if the destination disease doesn't defeat me, I know God's love will eventually sink in. Thanks for reading and responding.
on Jun 09, 2006
You have been such a blessing to Cindy and me. We really enjoyed the party. I count it an honor to be one of your friends. Love you always, and Happy Birthday again.

B~
on Jun 12, 2006
I count it an honor to be your whittle sista! () <----Dan Hug (cuz those are way more special than normal hugs) Trinitie
on Jun 12, 2006
() <----Dan Hug


Right back at ya! Be safe and know that someone in Texas is praying for her crazy whittle sista!