what i've learned along the way
. . . but a good one, I suppose
Published on February 14, 2005 By lobsterhunter In Misc
I wore a red sweater to work today. I figured I might as well embrace the Love holiday.

My kids at school were precious, and I found myself being silly with them all day. Joking around with your students can make the dullest day bright. Especially when you spend most of your time being dictator and babysitter.

About mid afternoon an old friend e-mailed me with a very sentimental Valentine message. I couldn't wipe the grin off my face. A very insignificant comment made my day, and I got to take a much needed stroll down memory lane.

After work, a group of single ladies, and one male friend met together at Starbucks. We celebrated single awareness day, if there is such a thing.

While visiting with a new friend in the parking lot, a stranger approached us asking for money. The tattered woman proceeded to inform us of her plight. Apparently she and her husband were on their way to a small town outside of Abiline to visit her mother who was recovering from open heart surgery. They had run out of gas money, and were in need of assistance. I probed for more information, and in the moment decided to loan her five bucks. I still have no idea if the transaction was above board, but before she headed back to the vehicle I prayed with her. If it was a con, perhaps God used me to convict. If not, I may have entertained angels without even knowing. Either way, it gave me something to blog about. We can always use a random experience every now and again.

When I finally arrived home after a quick shopping trip through SAM's, my oh, so excellent roomate greeted me with a smile. She cooked us chicken & spinach alfredo for dinner, and our friend Angie came over for our usual Monday night ritual. We obsessed over the turn of events in Everwood, and had a couple of good laughs. Talking back to the TV and criticizing fictional characters can be great fun.

I have so many wonderful things to be thankful for in this life. The mundane Monday's aren't so bad after all. I count this years Valentine's Day a raving success. Even if I am single.

Comments
on Feb 15, 2005
your so weird:)
on Feb 15, 2005
People named "anonymous" are not allowed to call me wierd. Thanks for commenting, I think.
on Feb 15, 2005
Yea for Tenille! I'm glad I get to spend Monday nights with you, Melissa...and Everwood of course!
on Feb 15, 2005
Good for you T. That's what I love about you all - your attitudes (well, mostly). And thanks for the part about the woman and the $5. The cynic in me says "She's a fraud! Don't do it." The Christ in me says, "This is what it's all about! Thank God for people like T." Thanks for your blog, it made my Tuesday start off great.
on Feb 15, 2005
sorry that was me i forgot to put my name in the spot but your really not weird love ya lots

on Feb 16, 2005
I loved reading your blog spot. It makes me miss you much more, but I feel blessed by you and challenged at the same time. I'm glad that your Monday was a great day and I pray that many more great days come your way.
on Feb 16, 2005

"""""Especially when you spend most of your time being dictotar and babysitter.""""

Yeah, being a "dictotar" is a terrible thing.  Hey Napoleon, give me some of your tots.

"""""We obsessed over the turn of events in Everwood, and had a couple of good laughs. Talking back to the TV and criticizing fictional characters can be great fun."""""

Hmmm, that makes me miss you.    Although, August and I do the same thing. 

Bravo on the article.  You know what I think makes a successful blog?  When I walk away after reading it and I feel....a change in perception or mood.  A very, very tiny shift in paradigm. 

This did it for me.  You da bomb!!!!!

Trinitie

 

on Feb 16, 2005
Trin,

When I checked my responses, I just had to laugh out loud. The Napoleaon thing was freakin' hilarious, considering I didn't even catch the very obvious spelling error. And NO, you can't have my tots! I'm glad you and August can enjoy Everwood alongside us. I appreciate your kind comments. Your a jewel of a sis!

Denise,

Thanks for the encouragement. My Knoxville, TN folks brightened my day!

on Feb 19, 2005
To My OH, So Wonderful Roommate! You're wonderful, Tenille. This Valentine's Day was the best I've had in a long while. Being surrounded by such wonderful friends is always a wonderful reminder of God's amazing blessings. I felt especially blessed this year. We all need a new perspective on Valentine's Day. It often gets criticized, but there is nothing wrong with taking a day to appreciate the special relationships in our lives, even if we don't have a romantic relationship at the moment.